f you were searching for a physical home, you wouldn’t go to the middle of a barren desert or start swimming toward Hawaii. You would probably go to a neighborhood that seems to suit you. You would look for the type of home that has a sense of homecoming and one that fills your need for a sense of place, familiarity and comfort. You would choose a home that suited your needs and would support you and allow you the space to explore your life.
You could certainly listen to the advice of others and that can be helpful. One friend might recommend an apartment or condominium. Perhaps a cabin is best for you, or a loft or senior housing or a stucco house or brick house. They are all giving you their opinion — based on what they believe is best for you. But you are the one who will live there.
They may truly and sincerely believe what they offer is the truth for you and only want you to be happy. If so, then look at their homes and see if they provide warmth, compassion, love, service and hope. If they do, then look further. If their homes are cold, judgmental, sterile and angry, then you may wish to continue looking. When searching for a spiritual home, listen to your well-meaning friends. But first, go within, meditate and look carefully to see if that is the type of residence you wish to move in to.
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